Although some signs and symptoms of violence in the home are obvious, some might be more subtle — especially those that affect a woman's psyche and not her body. A woman might be a victim if she:

• has bruises, cuts, burns, scars or other damage to her skin (and claims that she had an accident)
• has broken bones
• talks about feeling afraid of her partner
• talks about her partner's anger or unpredictable behavior
• goes out less often and becomes isolated from friends and family
• never seems to have enough of her own money
• receives endless phone calls or text messages from her partner, who demands to know where she is and what she is doing
• has chronic health problems that result from stress (such as stomachaches, headaches or insomnia)
• is depressed
• cries frequently
• seems constantly irritated or anxious
• An abusive relationship can bring a lot of harm to you. It also has a big effect on your kids.
• If you want help, I can assist you by finding support groups, shelters, legal resources and 800 numbers that you can call.